10 insights to keep in mind before visiting Texas (from a local who learned the hard way)

You might think that marrying a Texan and binge-watching unofficial documentaries about Beyoncé, Houston's queen, would adequately prepare me for life in the Lone Star State. However, nothing could truly ready me for the reality ahead.

In my early months, I found myself in some awkward situations: realizing that meal sizes were either large or extra large, dealing with heat rashes from stepping outside past 10 AM in July, and encountering my first gun—followed by hearing it fired for the first time on a ranch where keeping coyotes at bay is necessary. Yet, there were also delightful moments—those oversized surprises that make Texas life amazing. Who can resist unlimited soda refills? Or ice cream tubs the size of sinks? As the saying goes: ‘Everything’s Bigger in Texas’—and that applies beyond just the food.

Larger than the entire country of France, the second-largest state in the US offers diverse landscapes to explore—from the Chihuahuan Desert to the natural springs of Texas Hill Country, including the lively cities of Austin and San Antonio. With over 30 million residents—four million more than the entire population of Australia—there are plenty of people to meet. So while there are many logistics to consider when traveling through the state, there are also numerous things to know before you arrive. Here are 10 tips for first-time visitors to Texas—from someone who's learned the ropes over time.

1. Texas is more inclusive than it may seem

The question I hear most often is about discrimination in Texas. Is racism, homophobia, and sexism as prevalent as the state's reputation suggests? While things may look grim on the surface—especially after Texas lawmakers enacted several restrictive LGBTQI+ measures in 2023 and FBI data showing a rise in hate crimes over the past decade—my personal experiences tell a different story. I’ve witnessed friends subjected to Christian conversion camps and heard racist comments from well-educated individuals.

However, despite governmental actions, public sentiment doesn’t always align. Over 70% of Texans support anti-discrimination laws for LGBTQ individuals, and younger generations in major cities like Austin and Dallas, particularly Millennials and Gen-Z, are notably progressive.

LGBTQI+ travelers and people of color will find welcoming allies in cities like Houston, celebrated for its diverse communities; Austin, home to a vibrant queer community; and Dallas, which boasts influential female leaders, including the Executive Vice President of the Dallas Cowboys and the remarkable Anne Chow, AT&T’s first woman of color CEO. Not everyone in Texas displays a Trump flag on their lawn.

2. Having a car is crucial

Even though Texas boasts the most extensive railroad network in the United States and its major cities—Dallas, Houston, and Austin—are linked by over 30 flights daily, visitors will still find a car to be essential.

The state is enormous, and so are its cities. Dallas-Fort Worth and Houston are so sprawling that you'll require your own vehicle to access key attractions. For instance, if you're in the Deep Ellum entertainment district in Dallas, it takes about 30 minutes to drive to the AT&T Center for a Cowboys game. San Antonio has a similar layout; the Riverwalk is walkable, but venturing beyond that necessitates a car.

Public transportation in Texas is often sparse and impractical. Greyhound bus stations aren't always located downtown, and even those in Dallas and Fort Worth are situated in areas that aren't safe for walking. While the luxury bus service Vonlane offers a high-quality but pricey option between major cities, having a car remains the best choice.

3. Texas weather is intense

From scorching summers—reaching up to 110°F (43°C), making it nearly impossible to step outside without risking heat rash—to sudden icy winters, Texas weather is nothing if not extreme. The ideal times to visit are November and December or March and April, when flip-flops and shorts are suitable for most days.

During the summer months (June to September), follow the local custom: go outdoors early in the morning, before 10 am, or after sunset. Alternatively, stay indoors where activities are usually air-conditioned. In January and February, temperatures can plunge to 36°F (2°C), bringing the possibility of ice and snow. Like much of the US, Texas experiences hurricane season from June to November, with the eastern regions and coastal towns facing the highest risks. Always check weather updates before your trip.

If you suffer from allergies, be mindful of Cedar Fever, which begins at winter's end and peaks from January to March. Even powerful allergy medications may struggle to provide relief during this time.

4. Texans have a passion for cows and tequila

There’s a reason barbecue takes the spotlight in Texas’ Culinary Hall of Fame: the state is renowned for its cattle. Fort Worth once had so many cows that it earned the nickname ‘Cowtown.’ Today, Texas boasts the largest beef and dairy industry in the US. The best spot for tender, smoked brisket varies by opinion; Lockhart claims the title of ‘Barbecue Capital of Texas,’ but almost any local pitmaster with a weekend crowd (like La Barbecue in Austin) serves meat that practically falls off the bone.

Texans also have a soft spot for dairy, particularly ice cream. Look for Bluebell ice cream, sold by the half gallon for about $8 at H-E-B supermarkets—it’s a treat! When it comes to drinks, tequila reigns supreme. A frozen margarita is a guaranteed way to cool off, especially from a cozy taqueria.

5. Get ready for great value

The saying ‘Everything’s bigger in Texas’ holds true, especially when it comes to food, drinks, and lodging. While prices are similar to the rest of the US (around $6-8 for a pint of beer; $12-$26 for a pizza), you’ll generally receive larger portions: tacos overflowing with cheese, generous cake slices, 250ml glasses of wine, and cocktails that make anyone a budget-friendly date. For accommodations, expect more space—rooms and rentals are typically double the size of those in NYC, often with a pool included.

6. Tipping culture is spiraling out of control

Since the pandemic, tipping practices in the US have become excessive. The concept of ‘tipflation’—where gratuities are requested in industries beyond just bars and restaurants—has gained traction in Texas, where restaurant tipping starts at 20%. Now, you might see requests for tips at grocery stores, during live performances (with audiences encouraged to tip ballet dancers), and even in parks (where tipping for hiking trails is becoming common).

Some locals are so frustrated that they are only patronizing businesses that offer their staff livable wages. For instance, Thai Fresh provides its employees with better pay and benefits like vacation time, sick leave, and health insurance, thereby eliminating the need for tipping.

7. You’ll become accustomed to the taxidermy

Trophy hunting is quite popular in Texas, and you’re likely to encounter more taxidermied animals here than in any place outside a natural history museum. Notable locations like San Antonio’s Esquire Tavern showcase the heads of massive bison hanging over the tables. Stick around long enough, and you’ll find yourself desensitized to the sight of stuffed lions, giraffes, deer, crocodiles, birds, and zebras.

8. Wear everyday clothes and you’ll blend right in

You might assume that everyone in Texas is parading around in cowboy hats and boots, but outside of rodeos and ranches, that's not the case. Just as you wouldn’t expect to see Scottish men in kilts all the time or women in Kyoto dressed as Geishas, not every Texan is a cowboy. You can easily blend in wearing a simple T-shirt and jeans.

9. The charm of Southern hospitality is contagious

Expect service accompanied by friendly banter and smiles! Texans are known for their chatty nature, and a warm greeting is common throughout the state. It might feel unusual at first, but soon you’ll find yourself initiating conversations in elevators, coffee shops, or parks. Traveling solo? You'll make new friends at the bar in no time. Looking to meet someone? Plenty of chances await. Short on cash and craving a drink? You might just score a free tequila shot.

10. Approach discussions on religion and politics with caution

Many Texans hold strong religious beliefs, as this region is often referred to as America’s ‘Bible Belt’. While there is a rising atheist demographic, the majority of locals identify as Christian and conservative. Be cautious when expressing views on topics like women’s rights, gun control, drag culture, or even astrology.

11. Guns will be a common sight

As of 2021, Texas laws permit individuals to carry handguns in public without the need for a background check, license, or any form of safety training. Consequently, the likelihood of encountering a gun is quite high. In 2023, Texas recorded the second highest number of mass shootings among all 50 states, so it's wise to remain alert and consider downloading the Citizen App for real-time emergency alerts about potential threats.