In 1969, an American tourist fell for a European flight attendant, and they’ve been happily married for over five decades.

The moment Anthony Sall laid eyes on Barbara Olle, he was completely smitten.
It was the summer of 1969. Anthony, a 28-year-old American college graduate, was defying family expectations to travel the world.
Rather than accepting his father’s offer to join their thriving family business, Anthony spent the next five years exploring new places.
By 1969, Anthony’s travels were nearing their end, though he had no idea that the most transformative chapter of his journey was just about to begin.
Anthony first spotted Barbara while she was in line at the ferry terminal in Athens, waiting to board a boat to Mykonos, a Greek island.
“She had a presence that was impossible to ignore. I was immediately drawn to her, and it felt like a magnetic pull,” Anthony recalls to Dinogo Travel today.
Barbara was born in communist East Germany, but when she was 10, her family escaped to West Germany. Later, she attended a boarding school in Switzerland.
Her early years shaped a global perspective, and as a young adult, Barbara spent time living in both Paris and London. By the summer of 1969, she had just turned 24 and was living her dream as an Air France flight attendant.
The world of flying was a perfect fit for Barbara, aligning perfectly with her passions and lifestyle.
“I loved meeting new people, exploring a different country on each trip with my fellow flight attendants – whether it was on safari in Africa, strolling along the Champs-Elysees in Paris, or visiting my favorite hairdresser in Frankfurt. The experiences were endless,” Barbara shares with Dinogo Travel.
That summer, Barbara and her friend Evelyn, both flight attendants, were enjoying a well-deserved week off.
“We chose Greece because, at that time, it was affordable, sunny, and warm,” Barbara remembers fondly.
When Anthony saw Barbara at the ferry terminal, he was originally holding a ticket to Hydra. But seeing that Barbara was headed to Mykonos, he spontaneously swapped his ticket to follow her.

Anthony had hoped to strike up a conversation with Barbara on the ferry, but she was in second class, while he was stuck in third, with barriers between the two sections.
To make matters more complicated, it seemed there was already some competition for Anthony’s attention.
The day before, Barbara had met a Greek man near the Acropolis in Athens, who had invited her to dinner.
“To get out of it, I said, ‘Sure, I’ll meet you,’ but of course, I never showed up,” Barbara recalls. “The next morning, as my friend and I were heading to the harbor to catch the ferry to Mykonos, I was standing in line when someone tapped me on the shoulder. I turned around, and it was the Greek man.”
On the ferry to Mykonos, the Greek man invited Barbara and Evelyn to join him in the first-class section for a meal. Though Barbara wasn't interested in him romantically, she enjoyed meeting new people during her travels, so she agreed.
Meanwhile, on the other side of the ship, Anthony watched the scene unfold, trying to figure out how he could find a way to meet Barbara. In the meantime, he struck up a conversation with an American couple, Alan and Lili, who were seated with him in third class. He shared how he was instantly smitten by Barbara and hoped to speak with her.
Encouraged by his new friends, Anthony’s plan to meet Barbara soon took action. Before long, the three of them were stealthily climbing over the ropes separating third, second, and first class.
“Suddenly, Tony appeared – he had scaled all the fences on the ship,” Barbara recalls with a laugh.
Amused by his persistence, Barbara finally had the long-awaited introduction, and the Greek man invited the trio to sit with them.
From Mykonos to Hydra

As the ferry sailed across the crystal-clear waters of the Aegean Sea toward Mykonos, the pair spent the next few hours dining and conversing, getting to know each other better.
When the ferry docked, Anthony asked Barbara if she would like to have dinner with him later, just the two of them.
“I told him, ‘The island is so small, I’m sure we’ll run into each other again,’” Barbara recalls.
Barbara could tell Anthony was showing interest in her, but she didn’t want to encourage his feelings.
“I wasn’t looking for a relationship at the time,” Barbara explains. Just before her trip to Greece, she had ended a relationship with a man from the Netherlands, and she was still processing the breakup when she met Anthony.
“That’s why I kept my distance – I wasn’t ready to get involved,” she adds today. “But gradually, my feelings started to change.”
In the following days, Barbara, Anthony, her friend Evelyn, and the other travelers they met on the ferry spent time together enjoying Mykonos.
It turned out the Greek man owned a house right on a stunning beach. The group gathered on the sandy shore outside his home, staying up long after sunset, exchanging travel stories into the night.
“As we spent more time together, I began to find Tony really fascinating and enjoyed his company and the stories he shared,” says Barbara. “He has such a great energy about him.”
“Her friend liked me, which definitely helped my case in winning her interest and, eventually, a bit of her affection,” Anthony jokes.
The week eventually came to a close, and the group went their separate ways.
“We lost touch with everyone from the ferry once it was over,” says Barbara.
Barbara's friend Evelyn had to return to work, the Greek man was staying in Mykonos, and Lili and Alan were heading back to the US.
But Barbara still had a few days left before her next shift.
“So Tony and I decided to head to Hydra together,” Barbara recalls.
Things took a turn when it was just Tony and Barbara. As they strolled through the island's charming cobblestone streets, their conversation deepened, and they started opening up to each other like never before.
“We shared everything about our pasts, and through that, we realized not only did we have so much in common, but she was beginning to care about me the way I had cared for her from the moment I first saw her,” says Anthony. “We truly started to connect.”
Barbara remembers the two of them spending endless days at the beach and enjoying long nights in restaurants, deep in conversation and simply savoring each other's company.
They began, according to Anthony, “to sense that this was something truly special, starting to turn into something more permanent.”
On their third day in Hydra, Anthony told Barbara he believed they would one day marry.
“I just laughed it off, thinking Americans were completely out of their minds,” Barbara says, chuckling at the memory.
But in hindsight, she admits she was falling in love, even if she hadn't realized it yet.
“We both came to the realization that saying ‘goodbye’ at the end of our time in Greece wasn’t an option. We knew we had to think about a long-term commitment,” Anthony reflects.
A Weekend in Vienna
Throughout his five years of traveling the world, Anthony hadn’t returned to the United States once. This was partly due to financial constraints – his travels were funded by part-time jobs, with every penny earned going toward the next leg of the journey. He also believed that if he returned, his father would try to convince him to settle down in the States, so he delayed returning to ‘normal’ life as long as possible.
Coincidentally, a long-anticipated reunion with Anthony’s parents was scheduled for the week after his departure from Hydra. They were in Vienna for business, and Anthony had plans to meet them there.
Anthony invited Barbara to join him, and she agreed. They said their goodbyes in Greece, then reunited in Austria a week later.
Arriving in Vienna took Barbara by surprise, as she suddenly realized Anthony came from a privileged background.
“During our time in Greece, we shared everything – he was on a tight budget,” Barbara remembers. “But when I got to Vienna, he picked me up in a limousine with a chauffeur, and we pulled up to the Imperial Hotel. His parents were staying in the Grand Suite, and I had no idea about his wealth until then.”
Anthony hadn’t mentioned Barbara’s visit to his parents. For one, organizing a long-distance phone call from Europe to the US in 1969 wasn’t easy. But also, while he was confident his parents would like Barbara, he wasn’t sure how they’d react to her being German. Anthony’s parents were Jewish and, since the Second World War, had avoided German-made goods and refrained from doing business with Germany.
Anthony’s father was the first to meet Barbara – his mother was still in the suite, preparing for dinner. After meeting her, Anthony’s father quickly returned upstairs to brief his wife.
“This woman, I am completely smitten with her,” he told his wife.
When Anthony’s mother finally met Barbara, she shared the same warm reaction. The two women quickly became close friends.
“We bonded instantly,” says Barbara. “We hit it off right away, and I felt completely at home with her.”
“She absolutely adored Barbara,” says Anthony. “The two of them were inseparable.”
Anthony, Barbara, and his parents had a wonderful weekend in Vienna, and from that point, Anthony says their relationship “started to move very quickly.”
Afterward, Anthony continued his travels, heading through Eastern Europe to cross more countries off his list. Meanwhile, Barbara returned to her Air France base in Frankfurt, and the two would meet whenever they could.
“Whenever I had a few days off, he would visit me in Frankfurt and we’d spend the time together,” recalls Barbara.
During one of his visits, Barbara took Anthony to meet her parents in Germany’s picturesque Black Forest. They quickly warmed to him and enjoyed showing him the stunning landscape of the area.
Starting a new chapter in the US

In November 1969, Anthony’s five-year journey around the world came to a close, and he returned to the US. That Thanksgiving, Barbara traveled to Philadelphia to visit him, where she was warmly embraced by his extended family.
“And then we thought, ‘So, what’s next?’” Barbara recalls. “We couldn’t keep dating across the Atlantic – back then, communication wasn’t as easy as it is now. We didn’t have the ability to make calls like today. So we figured, ‘Either we get married, or we call it quits.’”
The couple decided to take the leap.
“I went back to Germany, sold my car, gave up my apartment, quit my job, and returned on December 31st, 1969,” Barbara says. “Two weeks later, we were married.”
Before the wedding, Barbara converted to Judaism, and the ceremony took place in a synagogue in Philadelphia.
“I had never practiced any religion. I wasn’t baptized – in East Germany, religion wasn’t something people followed,” she explains.
The wedding was intimate yet joyful, and afterward, Barbara and Anthony made their home in Philadelphia.
For Barbara, who adopted Anthony’s surname after their wedding, moving to the US felt like just another exciting chapter in her international journey.
“I’d been living away from home since I was 12,” Barbara says. “After school, I went to France, then to England. I had already spent many years far from my family, and they had grown used to my independence. So when I told them, ‘I’m going to America,’ they weren’t surprised.”
Anthony’s parents also made the transition to life in the US smooth and welcoming for Barbara.
“I felt incredibly fortunate to have them in my life. They were always there for us, offering endless support and love in every possible way,” Barbara recalls.
In 1971, just a year later, Anthony and Barbara embarked on their honeymoon aboard the newly launched Queen Elizabeth 2 (QE2) ocean liner.
Tony began his career with Revlon cosmetics, and the company transferred him to Chicago, where they welcomed their first child. Over the years, Anthony and Barbara expanded their family to three children.
During a summer trip to France in the late 1970s, Barbara felt inspired to return to flying and applied to become a flight attendant again. She joined National Airlines and rekindled her passion for travel.
When National Airlines was acquired by Pan American World Airways in 1980, Barbara traded her National Airlines uniform for Pan Am’s iconic gold and blue insignia.
When Pan Am folded in the 1990s, Barbara transitioned to Delta, where she continues to fly internationally today. At 76, she says her enthusiasm for the job has never faded.
“Every flight feels like a little getaway,” Barbara shares.

At 81, Anthony, now retired, still feels a rush of excitement every time Barbara returns from one of her work trips.
“It’s amazing, you’d think I just met her! Here we are, 54 years together, 53 of them married, and I’m still counting the days until she comes home after just a short three-day trip,” Anthony says with a smile.
When their children were in their late teens, they followed their parents’ adventurous spirit and set off on solo journeys across Europe.
“They hadn’t even finished high school, and people would ask me, ‘Aren’t you worried about them traveling alone in Europe?’” Barbara remembers.
Barbara always reassured others that she wasn’t worried. She wanted her children to experience the world on their own terms, to embrace their independence and keep an open mind to all that life had to offer.
“Even now, they travel frequently,” says Barbara. “And today, they’re showing their own children the vast world beyond their doorstep.”
More than five decades have passed since they first met.

Today, Anthony and Barbara live in California, where they are close to their children and deeply involved in the lives of their grandchildren, who are aged between 6 and 32.
In recent years, Anthony has settled into a quieter life at home, leaving the globetrotting adventures to Barbara these days.
Though the couple recently celebrated 53 years of marriage, they still share many common interests and cherish their time together.
“Every Saturday we enjoy a nice dinner together, sometimes just the two of us, other times with friends or other couples,” Barbara shares.
“We enjoy being social,” says Anthony. “Having close friends and family around is something we truly value.”
They also take pleasure in reminiscing about their shared travels, particularly how their journey began together in Greece back in 1969.
“Whenever we tell people how we met, they always respond with, ‘You should write a book about your story,’” Barbara laughs.
“Everybody!” Anthony responds enthusiastically. “I always thought, ‘Wow, this story is incredible.’ But then I realized, I’m living it, so naturally, it feels amazing to me – and to Barbara as well,”
Although the couple lost contact with their friends from Greece in 1969, Anthony recently tracked down Lili and Alan, the American couple who had urged him to speak to Barbara on the ferry.
Anthony had a long, nostalgic phone conversation with Alan, and both couples are looking forward to reuniting soon.
“The truth is, when we parted ways in Mykonos, both Alan and Lili were betting we’d end up together in the end,” Anthony recalls.
“We’re planning to meet up soon, catch up on everything, and I have no doubt we’ll pick up right where we left off 54 years ago,” he says.
Anthony and Barbara’s marriage, spanning over five decades, has had its fair share of challenges. For them, overcoming these struggles is what defines a love that lasts.
“When you truly love someone, it’s always worth fighting for,” Barbara says.
“Being with someone who means everything to you is one of the greatest blessings in life. I wholeheartedly believe that,” Anthony reflects.
“Our story is rare, and we both hold it close to our hearts. It’s incredible to think that two people from opposite sides of the Atlantic could come together in such a short time and create a lasting bond like ours, one that still thrives today,” he adds. “What an incredible journey.”

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