You & the world: Insights from travel experts on solo adventures.
At 19, I ventured alone from Germany to New York to explore a college opportunity. It wasn’t just a choice; it was a necessity.
On my final day, while standing at the corner of Lafayette and Broadway in the rain, it struck me. With a drenched breakfast in hand, I felt a rush of freedom like never before, despite being alone.
Since that moment, solo travel became my passion. Often, it was simply a matter of not having anyone to join me. The idea of waiting for the perfect travel companion felt utterly strange to me (pun intended).
I’ve now explored over 20 countries solo and even wrote a book about my love for it. In this piece, I, along with 12 seasoned solo travelers, share our top tips for traveling alone.
Solo Travel: Reasons, Destinations & Techniques
Wondering where to begin your solo travel journey? This article covers:
- The benefits of traveling alone
- Tips for solo travel
- Preparing for a solo vacation
- Activities to enjoy alone while traveling
- How to connect with others during solo trips
- Safety advice for solo travelers
- Traveling alone as a woman
- Essential tips for solo travelers
The importance of experiencing solo travel at least once in your lifetime
For me, solo travel is both a practical choice and a personal delight. There have been countless occasions when I had the chance to travel, but no one was available to accompany me. With friends and family busy or without a partner, I refused to wait for an elusive 'one day'—I chose to go solo instead.
One of the reasons I cherish solo travel is the freedom it brings. I can decide what I want to do without compromising with anyone else, allowing me to indulge in self-centeredness for a change.
However, this can sometimes be challenging, as many of us may forget what we truly desire. We might worry about being labeled irresponsible, spoiled, or self-absorbed.
Yet, it's perfectly fine to embrace these feelings occasionally and to follow your heart. 'You do you' should be the mantra of solo travel.
And don’t fret—traveling solo isn’t as daunting as some might suggest. Those who find it intimidating have likely never given it a try themselves.
What are the steps to travel alone?
You've made the decision to travel solo, but what's next? Where should you go? Many people mistakenly associate solo travel solely with backpacking, but that’s not the case. You don't need to stay in hostels or rough it out, and age is not a limiting factor.
Solo travel is simply about venturing out alone for a trip. You have the freedom to choose your destination. Check out the top solo travel spots for inspiration, but ultimately, ask yourself where you truly want to go. Some might dream of a European road trip, while others may yearn to explore the jungles of Borneo. Many just wish to travel somewhere without needing a passport.
If you're feeling apprehensive about going solo, start practicing at home! Treat yourself to a meal out, then seek solo activities like watching a movie or visiting a museum.
Stefanie Waldek, travel writer
As travel writer Stefanie Waldek advises, if you're nervous about solo travel, begin by practicing at home! Take yourself out for dinner and explore activities like movies or museums. Gradually, these small steps can prepare you to embark on a real adventure.
Keep in mind, solo travel can be whatever you desire—large or small, close to home or far away.
Preparing for solo vacations: Tips and strategies
Preparation is essential, just like any trip. “I felt both excited and anxious before my solo adventure, but careful planning made it more enjoyable and manageable,” says Jesse Woods, VP for SEO at Dinogo. Even if you prefer spontaneity, having a plan is crucial when traveling alone.
For me, this means reserving accommodations for at least a few nights upon arrival and figuring out how to reach my hotel or guesthouse from the airport (or train station). Additionally, I believe packing light is vital for solo travel. This way, you don’t have to rely on someone else to keep an eye on your belongings while you step away, allowing for greater freedom of movement.
Mark Chesnut, a travel writer and photographer, suggests: “Pack reading materials in both digital and print formats. You may find yourself in situations without WiFi—sometimes even without a TV or a charged phone.” I’d also recommend carrying a portable charger and ensuring your hand luggage contains all essentials: medication, electronics, wallet, and valuables. I include a toothbrush, glasses, and an extra set of underwear as well.
Pack reading materials in both digital and print formats. You may find yourself in places without WiFi—sometimes even without a TV or a charged phone.
Mark Chesnut, travel writer
When planning activities at your destination, consider the season. Are there peak vacation times or holidays to keep in mind? In such cases, it’s wise to book activities in advance. If you’re traveling off-season, you can afford to be more flexible.
Activities for solo travelers
Will I feel bored or lonely? This is a common concern for many embarking on their first solo journey. I’d counter this with another question: how often do you feel bored at home? Even though many of us live with family or roommates, we still spend considerable time alone without feeling bored. Add the thrill of exploring a new city or country, and the chances are you won’t feel bored at all.
Most activities are enjoyable solo, and for those that aren’t, group tours are available. “I seek out free walking tours with positive reviews. They lead me to places I might not discover on my own, introduce me to local dining spots, and allow me to meet fellow travelers,” shares Harriet Baskas, founder of stuckattheairport.com.
In the worst-case scenario, you’ll connect with other travelers for a few hours while gaining insights about your destination. In the best-case scenario, you could forge new friendships for a drink or even future adventures.
Upon arriving in a new place alone, venture out for an aimless run. If running isn't your thing, just stroll. You'll quickly acclimate to the area and may even stumble upon delightful surprises.
Gabriel Leigh, travel writer
And perhaps you'll want some time to yourself. Remember, being alone doesn’t mean you have to feel lonely. “When you arrive solo in a new location, take a leisurely run without a specific route in mind. If running isn't for you, just explore. You’ll soon familiarize yourself with the surroundings and may uncover some unexpected gems,” advises travel writer Gabriel Leigh.
Embrace the no-compromise rule while traveling solo and trust your instincts. Try something you'd never consider doing with your partner or couldn’t do with your children. Treat yourself, be daring, or simply enjoy some time people-watching.
How can you connect with others while traveling solo?
If you seek companionship, remember that traveling solo doesn’t mean you have to be alone all the time. There’s no ‘solo travel police’ ensuring you’re doing it correctly, and meeting new people is one of the joys of the experience.
According to Pauline Langlois, a SEO project manager at Dinogo, “Using the Couchsurfing app is a fantastic way to meet both travelers and locals while traveling alone. The app isn’t just for finding a place to stay; it’s a community where you can seek advice, get recommendations, and join events hosted by local ambassadors.”
Whether you're comfortable sleeping on a stranger’s couch or prefer other options, choosing the right accommodation is essential for solo travel. “I find that hostels are the best for meeting people. Some offer single rooms, and not all of them are party-centric,” notes Federica Ciancetta, video editor at Dinogo.
I share her sentiment and have fond memories of Moustache Hostel in Jaipur. I arrived there after a breakup that transformed what was supposed to be a romantic getaway into an unexpected solo journey. To make the most of it, I quickly booked a single room and signed up for a walking tour organized by the hostel. That tour led to friendships that have lasted a lifetime.
Embrace your extroverted side. When traveling alone, don’t just sit in a café with your phone or journal. Interact with fellow travelers and locals by asking questions, sharing comments, or simply offering a friendly greeting.
Bill Fink, travel writer
Hostels are also excellent for introverts or those who are a bit shy. Travel writer and photographer Bill Fink suggests: “Embrace your extroverted side. When traveling solo, don’t just sit in the corner of a café with your phone or journal. Engage with other travelers and locals by asking questions, making comments, or just giving a warm greeting.”
'Sometimes you have to pretend to be confident until you actually feel it, and a hostel with a welcoming atmosphere can assist with that. I love the company of others, so when I travel alone, I prioritize meeting new people. I do this through couch surfing or simply reaching out to see if anyone wants to grab a coffee or hang out,” shares Fie Korum, head of content marketing at Dinogo.
I, too, have made a friend by striking up a conversation from one café table to another on a beach in Koh Tao. Eventually, I awkwardly asked, “Would you like to have dinner sometime?” and ended up gaining a new friend abroad.
Safety guidelines for solo travelers
Be sure to check Dinogo's list of the safest solo travel destinations, as it serves as a fantastic source of inspiration. However, it shouldn't be your sole criterion. Safety can often be misleading, so using common sense is vital no matter where you are.
Here are some general tips to enhance your safety while traveling alone:
How can women travel solo safely?
In recent years, solo travel for women has evolved from a trend into a genuine movement. With my extensive experience traveling alone as a woman, I can confidently say that while nothing truly deters me, it's naive to think that men and women experience travel in the same way.
There are certain countries and situations where I need to adapt and adjust to ensure my safety. My top rule: I'm not afraid to offend or to say no. I’d prefer to come off as reserved or a bit cold than overly friendly, as this can sometimes be misinterpreted in various cultures.
If I ever feel uneasy, I won’t disclose my accommodation details to strangers or new acquaintances. Some women opt to wear a fake wedding ring, but I’ve never felt the need for that.
In many places like Japan, India, and the UAE, there are taxis and public transport specifically for women. I sometimes utilize these options, especially at night.
Ultimately, I believe most women understand how to navigate the world and what steps to take to enhance their safety. This awareness extends to our homes and beyond. However, like any traveler, I always check local customs and dress codes before venturing to a new destination.
Particularly when visiting more conservative countries, dressing modestly may not guarantee safety, but it demonstrates respect for the locals. As a visitor, honoring local customs is vital to any travel experience.
Final tips for solo travelers
It's perfectly normal to have days that feel a bit off. Not every travel experience will go smoothly, and some days won’t be enjoyable. I allow myself to miss home, take a day to stay in my hotel binge-watching Netflix and ordering pizza. Sometimes, finding a bit of routine is just what I need to rekindle my enjoyment of the adventure.
Share the experiences you’re having, whether through journaling, an Instagram account, or simply sending photos to family back home. I often Facetime my mom, who is always amazed that I can bring the world right into her living room thanks to technology.
And don’t forget—it’s completely okay to not enjoy traveling alone. Once you’ve given it a try, that is.
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