I booked the place months ago so as to come to see Ma'Nene burial rituals, which I could not obtain exact info about online regarding dates. (Turns out this is done at the discretion of each family and can happen anytime between June and Sep.) So upon booking a room, I reached out to the property, and Hendrik responded and initiated WhatsApp messages. At first it felt very helpful that he could provide some info, and also offers tour options. Some time later, I received a message from him asking if I can arrive earlier than my 23rd Aug scheduled date because according to him, "Ma'Nene is on 22 and 23 Aug" and that if I arrived on the 23rd itself I won't get to see anything as they only do it in the morning. He led me to think that by the 24th it will be all over. I changed my flight for that and had to pay an additional $150 for the change, as well as having to forfeit my return flight to Makassar to take a bus as there are no flights if I changed dates. I later learnt that there were 2 wrong info he had provided - Ma'Nene is decided by the individual family so any family can choose to do it anytime from June to Sep, and that it only happens in the morning. Once I got there, I learnt that there were families that have announced they will do it on many dates later than the 23rd, and I have also seen Ma'Nene performed in the afternoon. I didn't have to change my flights at all!!!! Upon changing my travel dates, Hendrik's place was not available for me to stay so I had to book elsewhere. We had not, up to this point, discussed the price for his tour. He quoted me a whopping US$150. (Most others never quoted more than US$70, and the official rate at the tourist office says it's 600,000IR (US$40).) I DID NOT AGREE TO ANYTHING, NOR HAD I COMMITTED TO GOING ON ANY TOURS WITH HIM. I checked with the other accommodation I booked into, and was quoted for the tour less than half the price of Hendrik's.H asked me where I will be staying, and I could not believe it when the owner at the other place told me that he was approached by H telling him I was "his tourist", meaning hands off he is mine! I HAD NOT AGREED TO ANYTHING. Upon informing H the price quoted elsewhere, there now suddenly is a rate of USD$70 for sharing with other tourists. I did consider it, given the time we spent corresponding, but I just could not bring myself to it considering this would be 25th Aug, 2 days after H told me it will be all over. I ended up doing it by myself for only the cost of scooter rental. In any case I was booked in to stay with H on 26th so I enquired about other possibilities (to be polite), and was told about the funeral ceremony on the 26th I was keen to attend. As it got near to this day. I started getting pressured thru messages and how other tourists now want their own private guides so I will be alone, there will be additional cost for cigarette offerings to the family (not quoted previously). Before I could decide, H called me. H got annoyed even though I stayed calm to explain to him all the other rates I had been offered, how I changed my flight at considerable cost in response to his misinformation. That was at 9:30pm the night before I was to go to his place, and he got annoyed and cancelled my room. (Fortunately the previous places I stayed had space so it did save me an awkward stay.) I did go to check out his place on the outside - it is very inconvenient. It's either a long rocky bad road or an even longer better road but up steep slopes. Place is not walkable for meals out. I am glad I did not end up there. I don't like to leave bad reviews but in this case, it really has cost me a lot of money, inconvenience and anxiety, and the discrepancy in tour rates compared to others and official rates, just has to be warned to others.H responded to my booking.com review rudely and even hurled insults, not responding to my accusation to his dishonest overcharging attempts. He kept insisting that I agreed to go on tours with him but you can ask him to produce proof - he will not be able to because I NEVER AGREED TO ANYTHING.