I went to a romantic mountain resort with my boyfriend for vacation. At first, the resort seemed nice—less crowded. The staff member, who introduced himself as the manager, didn’t speak English and used a translation machine to communicate with us. He was Chinese and helped us get a room. We had booked a big room to relax and unwind, but as soon as we entered the room, we realized it wasn’t as advertised. It was really old, dusty, and since it was rainy season, the room smelled awful. The white bedsheets had even turned yellow. Everywhere we touched was covered in dust and moisture.I looked around the compound to see if there was another available room to move to, but there weren’t any. So, I went to the lobby to ask the staff for help in cleaning the room. However, the manager started shouting at me furiously and asked for my nationality. All I wanted was a clean room to rest in! He eventually sent a staff member to the room. I felt so sad for her. She was probably the only staff member in the hotel—around 70 years old and very thin. I felt terribly bad for her, so I helped her sweep the floor and change the bedsheets, which were slightly less yellow than the previous ones. After cleaning, the room smelled a bit better, so we decided to leave the room and explore around Pai.When we returned, there was a power cut that lasted more than 10 minutes, so I complained to Agoda. I had been reporting the issue since the afternoon, after seeing the state of the room, but all they replied was, “Let us contact the property.” I stupidly complained to Agoda again, asking for a refund. At that moment, I was genuinely concerned about our safety—in the middle of nowhere, with no electricity and a rude, aggressive, arrogant hotel manager who didn’t know how to treat customers and couldn’t speak a single word of English.Agoda eventually contacted the property, and then the manager furiously banged on our door, threatening us and asking, “Do you want to get into trouble?” He was upset that I had sent proof of the room’s condition to Agoda and was now complaining about the electricity. As a loyal Agoda customer, I clearly stated that the situation was scary and could even be life-threatening. Being in the middle of nowhere, with no electricity and a dead phone battery, all Agoda could do was contact the property again, potentially putting us in more danger.The manager continued banging on our door violently and yelling, “Do you want to be in trouble?” He pointed his fingers at me while shouting and shaking with anger, which was completely unjustified considering the complaints were legitimate. Agoda wasn’t helping at all and only made the problem worse. I decided to take a different approach. Instead of continuing to complain to Agoda, I called the tourist police to report the situation. Thanks to their help, we were able to move to another hotel that night, but we missed our dinner and the night market because it was already very late. Our holiday was ruined, but at least we informed the police about the situation.But my question is: how many people are exposed to this kind of violence without reporting it to the police or Agoda? Why does Agoda work with such resorts without properly screening their quality? The room cost around 500 baht, but it taught me many lessons. The next day, Agoda offered me a $5 cashback, which they said was the maximum amount they could provide. I was like, “No thanks!” After everything—the helplessness, the life-threatening situation, the involvement of the tourist police—and they offered me $5, seriously?Thankfully, I’ve recovered from what I experienced during my vacation, but the whole ordeal left me with a lot to reflect on.